Give Muhammad a ChanceEight years into our marriage, it still sends little shock waves through people when I mention this. There are sometimes oooohs and aaahhhs, eyes get bigger and rounder, and I can almost see folks wanting
The First Lesson of Marriage 101: There Are No Soul MatesResearch shows that practically every dimension of life happiness is influenced by the quality of one’s marriage, while divorce is the second most stressful life event one can ever experience. Yet nearly
This is Marriage....and Stupid Oreos!!!Right now I’m sitting in a hospital. I am waiting for my husband, Joe. He is gowned and unconscious, undergoing a surgery called a discectomy, where they cut a teeny tiny hole in his lower back and shave
7 Things Your Muslim Husband Won’t Tell YouEver wish you could read your husband’s mind? Western culture encourages husbands and wives to talk to each other and discuss things. However, in many Muslim cultures, men are raised to be stoic and tight-lipped.
How Do You Decide Who to Marry? (Written By Kids)A group of young kids were asked how do you decide who to marry and here are the results which are pretty amusing. HOW DO YOU DECIDE WHO TO MARRY? You got to find somebody who likes the same stuff. Like,
Marriage isn't for youHaving been married only a year and a half, I’ve recently come to the conclusion that marriage isn’t for me. Now before you start making assumptions, keep reading. I met my wife in high school when we
The Real Truth About 'Boring' Men - and the Women Who Live With ThemSo not every guy proposes with lip syncing, rolling cameras, and a choreographed entourage. Yeah — so what if your dad didn’t? He just pulled that beat-up Volkswagon Rabbit of his over in front of Murray
Hiccups of Newlyweds After Great ExpectationsBecause of high expectations about the early marital relationship, borrowed from past life and also from films, couples end up feeling hurt. Life is not a bed of roses… How many times did you read or hear
When Muslims and Christians MarryOn a blustery weekend this past February, 26 people met at the Cenacle Retreat House in Chicago to reflect on the religious dimensions of marriage. Nothing unusual about that. What was unusual about this
I Didn't Love My Wife When We Got MarriedI had tried really hard up to that point to hold it back, honestly. I wanted to tell her on the first date, but I knew that would probably be weird. I still remember her reaction. She kind
MnMs....Marriage and MoneyA recent article in the New York Times highlighted the importance of a couple agreeing on the type of financial lifestyle they wish to live before things get serious in a relationship. Questions such as
So You Want To Marry My Daughter?THERE comes a time in your life when you have accomplished all the general things according to people’s criteria and a position on the invisible advisory board for public service opens up for you. Now,
Loneliness and Marriage in RamadanThis Ramadan is my thirteenth, and I’ve been looking forward to it. I was 27 years old when I converted to Islam and consequently spent 27 years celebrating Christian holidays and birthdays. I did go through
Are Arranged Marriages Bad?If you are Muslim or have been around Muslims for any length of time, you’ve seen or experienced some type of arranged marriage.Perhaps you’re in one yourself or will be in one soon. Or maybe you have
Is Passionate Love in Marriage…Real?“I’m afraid of getting married,” she told me. She, like the countless other women who had approached me, confessed what she thought was unique to her. “I’m constantly told by older married women that I
Will Marriage Solve My Problems?After engaging more with the Muslim community through activities like da`wah (calling to Islam), conferences, and halaqat (study circles), I have observed something intriguing: there seems to be a fascination—even
How to Keep the Wedding Process SimpleThis topic is a touchy topic for many of who have been raised in our cultures instead of Islam – and that is always thinking about having a BIG, extravagant wedding that costs a lot of money. The
Divorce among American Muslims: Statistics, Challenges & SolutionsThey were the ideal Muslim couples. Sakina Khan and Ali Dawood from Detroit. Sarah Tayyib and Jamal Qandeel from San Jose. Both pairs appeared firmly committed to Islam on a personal level and through