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Muzz requires every member to complete selfie verification before they can be seen. Profiles are manually reviewed, blocking and reporting are free and available to everyone, and photo privacy is on by default rather than sold as an upgrade. Muzz has over 10 million members and 800,000 success stories.

It’s a fair question, and it deserves a straight answer rather than a paragraph about how much we value your trust.So here is what Muzz actually does, what it doesn’t do, and what you should do yourself – on Muzz or anywhere else.

Muzz is a Muslim marriage app founded in 2015 by our co-founder Shahzad Younas, who left a career at Morgan Stanley, taught himself to code and built the first version of the app himself. It went through Y Combinator, reached its first million users in 2016, and rebranded from Muzmatch to Muzz in 2022.Today Muzz has over 10 million members and more than 800,000 success stories – couples who met on the app and got married.Muzz is independently owned. It has never been sold to a larger dating (Zionist) conglomerate, and its founder has stated publicly and repeatedly that it will not be. Free Palestine forever and always. 

Yes. Selfie verification is mandatory on Muzz, not an optional badge and not a paid feature.Every member submits a selfie, which is compared against their profile photo to confirm the profile belongs to a real person. That selfie is never shared with anyone – not with other members, not with third parties – and is used only for security.Muzz also reviews profiles manually. Photos that don’t meet the guidelines are rejected, and every member has to show their face in their verification selfie. Manual review is slower than pure automation, and that’s deliberate.Muzz also monitors behaviour, not just profiles. Accounts that like or message at volume – fast, indiscriminate, the pattern of someone working through a list rather than looking for a spouse – get flagged automatically and reviewed by a person.Muzz founder Shahzad Younas has written publicly about how the company approaches this, and he’s blunt about it: it’s a permanent cat-and-mouse game, and he won’t claim it’s solved. (ref: https://x.com/ShahzadYounas_/status/1889686271515058626?s=20) Some context from that thread worth repeating: Scammers target relationship apps specifically, because people there are emotionally open and are often too embarrassed to report being defrauded. These aren’t opportunists – Muzz has encountered organised operations running scams as full-time work from dedicated offices.What Muzz uses against them: device identification, selfie and facial-similarity recognition, and further methods the company deliberately doesn’t publish. A significant focus is stopping blocked scammers from simply signing up again – the single measure that most affects whether a removal actually sticks.

Muzz tracks how long a suspected scammer exists on the platform before being detected and removed, and that window has narrowed meaningfully as these measures have come in. The goal is removal before the account can match or message anyone at all.Shahzad has also noted the uncomfortable part: AI now makes some deception nearly impossible to spot by eye, which means increasingly using AI to detect AI.Honorable mention: Only women review verification selfies. Muzz’s community team is all women, by design. For sisters who wear hijab or niqab, or who simply don’t want their face reviewed by a man, verification shouldn’t mean a trade-off — so it isn’t one. The selfie you submit is seen by a woman on the Muzz team, and by no one else. It never appears on your profile, is never shown to other members, and is never shared outside Muzz.

Any platform with millions of members attracts people acting in bad faith. Pretending otherwise would be the least trustworthy thing an app could do.What Muzz does about it: mandatory selfie verification at signup, manual profile review, and an investigation process for impersonation reports. If you think someone is impersonating another person, report them and Muzz will investigate.

Blocking is free, takes seconds, and works two ways.From their profile: open the profile, scroll to the bottom, select Block, choose a reason, submit.From your chat: open the chat, tap the three dots in the top right, and under Safety Options select Block, then confirm.Two things worth knowing, both documented publicly by Muzz:

Reporting is separate from blocking, and you should do both when someone’s behaviour breaks the rules rather than just being a bad match. Reports go to the moderation team for review, and Muzz operates a ban appeals process so decisions can be contested.

Muzz runs a Safety Center at muzz.com/us/en/safety/ with four sets of published guidelines:

The Safety Center also carries emergency contact guidance. If you feel unsafe right now, call 911 first. Report to Muzz afterwards.

Photo privacy is standard on Muzz, not a paid upgrade. Members who prefer to keep their photos hidden for privacy or modesty can do that on the free tier.Muzz also offers free in-app voice and video calling, so you can see and speak to someone before meeting them without exchanging phone numbers. If you’d like to exchange phone numbers but we believe it is too early, we’ll actually nudge you by asking “Are you sure you want to share personal information?” One point of confusion worth clearing up: the Gold feature relating to blurred photos is a filter that lets paying members hide profiles whose photos are blurred. It does not change anyone’s ability to protect their own photos. Hiding yours is free.

Muzz caps active conversations at five. Once you have five going, browsing pauses until you unmatch someone. You can have unlimited matches – the limit is on conversations, not connections.This has been documented in the Muzz help center since the feature launched, and the reason is straightforward: five real conversations that go somewhere are worth more than fifty that don’t.The limit applies to everyone, including Gold members. It isn’t a paywall and there is no version of Muzz you can buy that removes it.Muzz also prompts you when a conversation goes quiet from either side, to check whether you want to keep talking.

Relationship apps have a problem, and everyone using one already knows what it is.You send a message. Nothing. You send another. Seen, two weeks ago. Eventually you stop asking. Ghosting isn’t a safety issue in the way harassment or scams are. Nobody is in danger. But on an app built for marriage, being left hanging with no answer is its own kind of disrespect, and it is the single most common complaint we hear.So Muzz built accountability into the mechanic. If you have unanswered conversations, browsing stops until you deal with them – reply, or unmatch. Both are valid. Walking away is allowed. Disappearing while someone waits is not.Ending a conversation respectfully is a feature, not a failure. Not every match is the one, and saying so is kinder than silence.

Matching and chatting on Muzz are free, and Muzz has committed to keeping them that way. You do not need to pay to meet someone or to talk to them.Gold adds: must-have filters so you only see matches within your preferences, more daily likes, a free weekly Profile Boost that puts you in front of around 30x more people, a filter to hide blurred-photo profiles, a hideable VIP badge, and Rematch after an unmatch.What Gold does not do: remove the five-conversation limit, unlock verification, or gate your own photo privacy. Safety features are not on the paid tier.

This applies whether you use Muzz or not.

Is Muzz safe to use?Muzz requires mandatory selfie verification for every member, manually reviews profiles, and offers free blocking and reporting to all users. Photo privacy is available on the free tier. As with any app, your own precautions — video calling before meeting, staying on-platform early, never sending money — matter alongside the platform’s.Does Muzz verify its users?Yes. Every member must complete selfie verification, which compares a submitted selfie against the profile photo to confirm a real person is behind the account. The selfie is never shared with anyone and is used only for security. Verification is not a paid feature.Are there fake profiles on Muzz?Any large platform attracts bad actors. Muzz counters this with mandatory selfie verification, profile review, and an investigation process for impersonation reports. If you suspect someone is impersonating another person, report them.How do I block someone on Muzz?From their profile: scroll to the bottom, select Block, choose a reason, submit. From a chat: tap the three dots, then Block under Safety Options. They are not notified, and the block works both ways — they can’t see or message you, and you won’t see them either.What happens when you report someone on Muzz?Reports go to the moderation team for review, which can result in a ban. Muzz operates an appeals process so banned members can contest a decision. Why can’t I browse when I have five conversations?Muzz caps active conversations at five so members focus on real conversations rather than collecting matches. Reply or unmatch to free a slot. Matches are unlimited – only conversations are capped, and the limit applies to Gold members too.Does Muzz Gold remove the five-conversation limit?No. The limit applies to every member regardless of subscription. Gold adds filters, likes, Profile Boosts, Rematch and a VIP badge — it does not change conversation limits or unlock safety features.Is Muzz free?Yes. Matching and chatting are free and Muzz has committed to keeping them free. Gold is optional and adds visibility and convenience features.

The Muzz help center covers profile setup, verification, safety and privacy, and the Safety Center holds the community guidelines and external support resources. If you feel unsafe right now, contact the police first.

“There wasn’t a spark.”

It’s one of the reasons people decide not to take things further when looking for a potential spouse. We often expect an instant spark when looking to get married, even when we share the same values and the conversation flows naturally. But when that feeling isn’t there straight away, we assume something is missing and choose to walk away.

We’re living in a world shaped by over-romanticisation and social media, where we’ve come to believe that finding the person you want to marry should begin with a spark. But can we really attribute something as subjective as a spark to the things that actually matter, like compatibility? Is this the standard we should be setting for ourselves?

When we speak about finding a spouse in Islam, the emphasis isn’t on someone who gives you an emotional high. Rather, we’re encouraged to look at faith, character, and compatibility. The Prophet ﷺ said:

“When someone whose religion and character you are pleased with comes to you, then marry them.”

These qualities aren’t always the most clear during your first interactions. You begin to see them through the way someone speaks, how they treat their family, how they handle disagreements, and how they carry themselves. All of these aspects paint a much clearer picture of someone’s character.

One thing to remember when looking to get married is that an instant spark is a feeling, whereas compatibility is a consistent pattern. A spark can disappear just as quickly as it appears.

Instead, ask yourself:

These are just a few questions that open a window into whether you’re truly compatible.

Marriage in the Qur’an is described as a source of sakinah (tranquillity):

“And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy.”

(Qur’an 30:21)

Three words stand out: tranquillity, affection, and mercy.

These are qualities that are built over time. They aren’t founded on fleeting emotions, but on trust, consistency, and shared commitment.

Sometimes we dismiss someone simply because the conversation didn’t evoke intense emotions. But that’s exactly the point. When you’re considering someone for marriage, it should feel steady rather than overwhelming. You should feel heard, respected, and at ease. That sense of peace is invaluable.

When you’re getting to know someone for marriage, ask yourself:

These questions shift your focus from chasing a momentary feeling to considering the future you’re trying to build.

The lesson we should take is giving someone a genuine chance doesn’t mean ignoring your instincts. It means recognising that not everything worth building happens instantly. The goal of marriage was never to chase a feeling that lasts a few moments. It’s to find someone with whom you can build a life rooted in faith, mercy, patience, and peace.

I always imagined I’d meet my future husband organically.

You could say I was (and, if I’m being honest, probably still am) a hopeless romantic with a mild obsession with American rom-coms and the occasional Netflix feel-good series. I had an entire highlight reel of imaginary meet-cutes playing in my head. We’d reach for the same book in a bookshop. We’d accidentally end up in the same coffee queue. I’d spill my drink, he’d laugh, and somehow Allah had already written that this ordinary moment would become the beginning of our life together. That was how I imagined my love story would unfold.

University didn’t exactly help. There was something about being surrounded by people your own age, watching friendships turn into engagements and engagements turn into marriages, that made it all feel inevitable. I genuinely believed that by 25, I’d have met my person. It wasn’t even a question. Well, here I am, 25 years old, and none of those cinematic moments have happened. At least, not yet.

For the longest time, I couldn’t picture myself meeting someone through a marriage app like Muzz. It felt too planned. Too desperate, almost. I wanted a story I’d enjoy telling one day. I wanted the cute anecdote that would make everyone smile when they asked, “So, how did you two meet?”

Perhaps if I insisted enough that I’d never meet someone online, Allah SWT would send my future husband to my local coffee shop instead, or I’d somehow convince myself that a bit of reverse psychology would work, buying into the whole “you attract what you fear” idea (spoiler alert: that’s not quite how it works).

After a few awkward conversations and meet-ups that went nowhere, I found myself becoming increasingly cynical towards the apps. I’d download Muzz for example, convince myself it wasn’t for me, delete it, swear I’d never come back, only to find myself reinstalling it a few months later. It became less about finding someone and more about proving to myself that maybe this just wasn’t my path.

Then my sister got married. She met her husband on the apps.

For the first time, this wasn’t a story I’d read online or heard from someone else’s cousin’s friend. This was my sister. Someone whose journey I’d watched unfold from beginning to end. I saw the conversations turn into family introductions, family introductions become a nikah and beautiful wedding, and the merging of two cultures becoming a marriage. It suddenly wasn’t this abstract idea anymore.

Then, the following year, one of my friends got married after meeting his now-wife on the apps. This year, two more of my friends texted me (on completely separate occasions) with the same words:

“I have news. Alhamdullilah, I’m getting married.”

And once again, their stories began in exactly the same place – on the apps. At some point, I stopped seeing these as exception and instead started asking myself a different question: what was it that they were doing differently?

The more I spoke to my loved ones about their journey, the more I realised it was never really about the app, it was about their mindset. None of them approached it as a last resort. They weren’t chasing perfection or expecting instant chemistry after a handful of messages. They weren’t treating every conversation as though it had to lead to marriage, nor every rejection as a sign that Allah had forgotten about them.

One of the biggest lessons I learned from watching the people I love find their partners was that they held two opposite ideas at the same time. They made the effort, and they trusted Allah with the outcome. They tied their camel, but they never mistook the camel for the destination.

They didn’t believe the app would find them a spouse. They believed Allah would, if and when the time was right. The apps were simply one of the many means through which that decree could unfold. That perspective changed everything for me.

I realised I’d been placing far too much emotional weight on the method. I was so attached to how I wanted my story to begin that I almost missed the bigger lesson altogether – Allah doesn’t need to fulfil our du’as in the way we’ve imagined. Sometimes He answers them in ways we’ve never considered.

Watching the people closest to me find love in a way I never expected didn’t suddenly make me believe that marriage apps like Muzz are the key to getting married. It did however, remind me that tawakkul isn’t about waiting for your dream scenario to appear. It’s about taking the right steps, keeping your intentions pure, and trusting that Allah’s plan is infinitely better than the one you’ve been directing in your head since you were eighteen.

Perhaps that’s the real love story we’re meant to find – not in where you meet, but letting go of where you thought you had to.