
May 28, 2025
Every year in the final month of the Islamic calendar, Dhul Al-Hijjah millions of muslims from around the globe embark on the Hajj pilgrimage. A pillar of islam, that is obligatory on financially capable muslims who are physically and mentally fit.
The rituals of Hajj date back to around 4000 years ago, when Prophet Ibrahim AS was ordered by Allah SWT to leave his wife, Hajera (Hager) and infant son, Ismail in the desert; that would later come to be known as Makkah. The act of running between Safa and Marwa is replicating Hajera RA when she ran between the hills, looking for water for her son. It was then, when Angel Gibrael AS appeared and the spring of zamzam burst forth from the ground. The availability of water led to civilization there and eventually when Ibrahim AS was ordered to return to his family, Ibrahim AS and Ismail As to reconstruct the Kaaba and establish it as a place solely for the worship of Allah (SWT). This event is mentioned in the Quran as follows:
And ˹remember˺ when Abraham raised the foundation of the House with Ishmael, ˹both praying,˺ “Our Lord! Accept ˹this˺ from us. You are indeed the All-Hearing, All-Knowing. (Quran 2:127)
However, over time the Kaaba lost its monotheistic purity, and became a place of idol worship and polytheistic religious practice. In the year 630 AD, the prophet led his followers from Medina to Mecca, destroying the idols and re-dedicating the site to the worship of the one God. Two years later, he performed the first ever Islamic pilgrimage, laying out to his followers the rituals of the Hajj.
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One may not be able to embark on Hajj, but can still reap multiple benefits during the Holy month of Dhul Al-Hijjah.
“There are no days during which righteous deeds are more beloved to Allah than these days,” meaning the (first) ten days of Dhul- Hijjah. They said: “O Messenger of Allah! Not even Jihad in the cause of Allah?” He said: “Not even Jihad in the cause of Allah, unless a man goes out with himself and his wealth and does not bring anything back.” (Sunan Ibn Majah)
These 10 days of Dhul Al-Hijjah, give Muslims a once-in-a-lifetime chance to redeem themselves and gain immense blessings and rewards. So, what can be done to gain maximum reward and forgiveness in these ten days?
There are three types of Hajj: Tamattu’, Ifrad and Qiran.
The permits are available through the Nusuk platform. The Ministry of Interior, in partnership with SDAIA, launched the Tasreeh Platform to streamline Hajj permit issuance. Integrated with the Nusuk platform, it authorizes access to Makkah and the holy sites for pilgrims, workers, volunteers, and transport vehicles. It is imperative to hold a Hajj permit, or individuals risk severe penalties.
Hajj is a journey that requires more than just spiritual intention, it is tough on your body physically and mentally. To have a fulfilling Hajj, preparing oneself with ample resources and exercise, will help in completing it successfully. Below are some tips you can follow to prepare yourself for this once in a lifetime’s journey.
Physical Prep
Mental & Spiritual Prep
The journey of Hajj can actually prepare you for marriage, both instances hold many values that lay the foundation for a successful journey.
Marriage, like Hajj, begins with intention and commitment. Just as every pilgrim begins their sacred journey with a sincere niyyah (intention) for the sake of Allah, a successful marriage is built on the foundation of honest, heartfelt commitment to one’s partner—also for the sake of pleasing Allah. When both partners dedicate themselves to this journey with clarity and sincerity, the union becomes not just a worldly arrangement, but a sacred act of worship.
Both Hajj and marriage require sacrifice and patience. The journey of Hajj is marked by physical and emotional trials—long walks, intense heat, crowded spaces—all of which cultivate sabr (patience) and humility. Similarly, marriage challenges individuals to sacrifice ego, prioritize their spouse’s needs, and invest in the relationship even when it’s difficult. True love in marriage grows not from taking, but from giving—time, effort, and compassion.
Forgiveness and renewal are central to both journeys. Hajj offers believers a chance for spiritual cleansing, seeking Allah’s mercy and returning home renewed. In the same way, marriage is an ongoing process of renewal—of forgiving mistakes, healing wounds, and striving to improve together. Just as pilgrims return transformed, couples who approach their relationship with mercy and a willingness to grow can continuously rediscover peace and harmony.
Overall, what Hajj requires is patience, tawakkal, and sincere intention – a journey of a lifetime that should change you for lifetime and push you towards goodness. May Allah make it easy for all pilgrims and invite all muslims for this beautiful journey! Remember, even if you are not going for Hajj, there is ample reward to collect in the first ten day of Dhul Hijjah – don’t miss out! May Allah accept all our efforts!
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